“So Far As It Depends On You”

Tuesday, August 16, 2022

BIBLE READING: 2 Samuel 20

“And David said to Abishai, “Now Sheba the son of Bichri will do us more harm than Absalom. Take your lord’s servants and pursue him, lest he get himself to fortified cities and escape from us.”” (2 Samuel 20.6)

Sheba was an influential man, but he was not a good man (2 Samuel 20.1). Given the recent events of Absalom’s rebellion, David took swift and definitive action to subdue this uprising. Abishai and his brother Joab pursued Sheba and cornered him in the town of Abel. Their objective was clear: destroy Sheba at all costs. However, their tactics also endangered the lives of many innocent people (2 Samuel 20.15). As they besieged the city, an unexpected hero entered the scene.

“Then a wise woman called from the city, “Listen! Listen! Tell Joab, ‘Come here, that I may speak to you.’”” (2 Samuel 20.16).

This wise woman carried no weapon but bore great wisdom. She knew the conflict needed clarity. More importantly, her objective was to peaceably reconcile the matter, if possible (2 Samuel 20.19). With thoughtful questions and persuasive speech, this woman resolved the conflict, administered justice, and saved her city. What is most amazing is she did this despite the poor choices of others. Sheba was worthless and divisive, stirring many to rebel. Joab was impetuous and violent. Conflict had begun and was increasing. In many other instances this would had ended with mass bloodshed, and most would have chalked it up to unavoidable circumstances. But, through wisdom, the outcomes were altered for good.

Naturally we gauge our actions through the lens of circumstances. But wisdom understands my choices are not contingent on the actions of others. I am responsible for my actions, and I do not have to get swept up in my circumstances. It may be difficult at times, but we must remember: the only person I can truly change is ME. We don’t need to make excuses or decry our imperfect circumstances. We have power to do what we know is right, and by wisdom we will. “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all” (Romans 12.18).

Also, wisdom understands my choices impact more than just me. This woman’s choices saved her city, but also ended Sheba’s life. It ended this rebellion and subdued the mounting tensions. There was great power in her actions. While most people get swept up in the emotion of the moment, one person can dramatically alter a situation… and that one person can be ME.

This woman’s choices are uncommon but not unattainable. It’s important to see that the scriptures draw no attention to her name but to her character. She will forever be remembered as the wise woman who turned the tide of this rebellion. If your story were recorded for history, how would you be remembered?

“Wisdom is better than weapons of war, but one sinner destroys much good.” (Ecclesiastes 9.18)

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